The Only 10 Registry Items You’ll Actually Use

I’ve seen the baby product industry throw out all sorts of “must-haves” that, in reality, rarely get used. Trust me when I say there are only a handful of things you'll truly need day in and day out. Let’s cut through the fluff and get down to what 10 items should actually be on your registry.

1. A Sturdy Bassinet

A good bassinet is essential. I've photographed so many peaceful newborns, and one thing is clear: you don’t need a fancy, expensive bassinet with built-in lullabies and rocking features. A simple, sturdy one that you can move from room to room will work perfectly. Make sure it has breathable mesh sides and a firm mattress. That’s it – no bells and whistles necessary.

2. A Convertible Car Seat

I always tell expectant parents during maternity sessions to skip the infant-only car seats and invest in a convertible one. These grow with your baby from newborn to toddler, saving you money and hassle in the long run.

And since we're talking about getting around, pair that car seat with a quality baby carrier. Trust me, when you’ve got your hands free and your baby snug against you, it’s a game-changer. Pick one that's adjustable and comfortable because you’ll use it a lot – from grocery store trips to soothing late-night walks.

3. A Trusty Stroller/Carrier

Let’s be real: you’re going to need a solid stroller. But don't get sucked into the hype of fancy models with a million features. What you need is something sturdy, easy to fold, and able to handle different terrains (because sidewalks aren't always smooth). Some strollers come with all sorts of extra attachments, but as long as it's reliable and works for your lifestyle, you’re set.

While a stroller is great, sometimes you’ll want to wear your baby close – and that’s where a baby carrier comes in. Look for one that's comfortable for both you and your little one and easy to adjust. Whether you’re running errands or trying to calm a fussy baby, baby-wearing can be a lifesaver. Plus, you get your hands back – and every mom knows how relieving that is.

4. Feeding Station Must-Haves

Whether you’re breastfeeding or bottle-feeding, you’re going to need a few key items: a good nursing pillow (which also works great for tummy time), a few bottles, and a breast pump.

If you’re breastfeeding, a hand pump is a great backup, especially when you're on the go or just need to relieve a little pressure.

And trust me, even if you’re planning to exclusively breastfeed, having bottles on hand for pumped milk is always a good idea.

Babies can be picky about bottles, so have a small set ready, but don’t go overboard.

5. Diapers and Wipes

You’re going to need a lot of diapers. Even if you’re planning on using cloth diapers, having a stash of disposables is essential for those blowouts, tired days, and when you're out and about. Stock up on wipes too – you’ll go through them faster than you think.

6. Simple, Functional Clothing

Your baby isn’t going to care about designer outfits. What they (and you) will love are zip-up sleepers. Not snaps, zips. Especially in the middle of the night when you’re half-asleep, zippers make life so much easier. Get a few with dual zippers for extra convenience, and throw in some sleep sacks or swaddles – they’re a lifesaver for helping babies sleep better.

7. Swaddles and Sleep Sacks

Speaking of swaddles, this is a must-have. Swaddling helps calm newborns and gives them a sense of security. Swaddle blankets are great, but once your baby starts wiggling out of them, sleep sacks with zippers will be your go-to. They’re easy to use, and you can transition from swaddle to sleep sack as your baby grows.

8. Pacifiers and a Sound Machine

A good sound machine and a few pacifiers can be your best friends. Pacifiers are a quick way to soothe a fussy baby, and the sound machine helps create a consistent, soothing sleep environment. Babies love white noise because it reminds them of the womb, so this will likely be a staple in your routine.

Note: Don’t worry if your baby doesn’t take to a pacifier. Some babies just aren’t interested, and that’s perfectly normal.

9. Baby Care Essentials

You won’t need every gadget out there, but a few baby care essentials will make life easier. Grab a nasal aspirator (you may need use it more than you think), baby nail clippers, and a basic first aid kit. They’re not glamorous, but you’ll be glad you have them on hand when you need them.

10. Newborn Photography

Here’s something to consider adding to your registry: newborn photography. I know it might sound like a luxury, but these moments pass so quickly. If someone’s asking what gift card they can give you, consider suggesting a contribution towards professional newborn photos. It’s something that you and your family will cherish for years to come.

Final Thoughts

Your baby doesn’t need half of the things the baby product industry tries to sell you. What you really need are a few practical essentials that’ll make your life easier in those early days. Stick to the basics – a sturdy bassinet, a convertible car seat, simple clothing, and baby care must-haves – and you’ll be well-prepared. Save your energy and budget for what truly matters: spending time with your little one and soaking up those special moments. After all, that’s what parenthood is really about.